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Marriage is described as a legal contract or social union between a man and a womanMarriages are perceived to be an interpersonal relationship that is both sexual and intimate. People enter marriage for various reasons. There is the legal factor, as well as the social and emotional aspect. Marriage is rooted in spirituality and religion as well.

People see marriage as a commitment which is recognized by the public, its starting point is to build a family. Marriage is at the top of the hierarchy while the family unit as a legal establishment and protection of the children in a legal sense fall under it. Even if marriage is a common practice, there are still unique practices in each culture. There is a certain complexity to marriage since two people are legally and economically bound to one another

In the context of marriage, relationships are grounded on trust and honesty. Because marriage entails a lot of compromises and work, the relationship between the husband and wife need to be strong and unwavering. Traditionally the husband is seen as the patriarch, while the wife used to take care of the home and the kids. However, times have changed now and the roles aren’t as clear cut as they used to be. Now days there are husbands who stay at home and tend to all the needs of the children and the house. While the mothers are the sole breadwinners and are out working nine to five jobs. The rise in women empowerment have led to more women wanting to be independent in every sense of the word. Whatever the arrangement is in a home, relationships and marriage go hand in hand. Marriage is truly a juggling act since both husband and wife are responsible for each other.

The difficulty with marriage lies in the daily emotional needs of each person in the relationship. There is the responsibility to make enough money to provide for the family.  However, at the same time, there is also the need to provide emotional security to one another. Unfortunately the sacred institution of marriage has been tainted and corrupted.  Some marriages exist purely for financial benefit.  Marriage and relationships are complex and multi-layered, yet it has a long history that never ceases to exist.